Events for Confidence, Connection & Creativity
Women only events designed to improve the sex you're having & the life you're living
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Sold outSpill the High Tea - 13 September
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Lap Dance & Laughs - Saturday 26 September
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Vino & Vulvas (a clay workshop) - 18 September
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For those who know what it's like to walk through the world as a woman, or those in their feminine
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Why we're here
Welcome to your new favourite space—where self-care includes pleasure, empowerment is sexy, and women come first (in every sense).
I'm Phoebe, your worldly best girlfriend with impeccable taste and zero judgment.
I couldn't find anywhere classy & approachable for women to learn about pleasure, ask questions about sex toys and connect through women only events - so I built it.
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The October Long Weekend is our Girls' Weekend
Girls' Weekend at the Bordella. This October long weekend (2-4th October 2026), The Bordella is bringing the girls together for a weekend of dancing, craft, good food, sex positivity and...
The October Long Weekend is our Girls' Weekend
Girls' Weekend at the Bordella. This October long weekend (2-4th October 2026), The Bordella is bringing the girls together for a weekend of dancing, craft, good food, sex positivity and...
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The Real Reason You’re “Never in the Mood” (It’...
Let’s face it: we’ve all been there. One moment you’re feeling like a goddess, and the next, the thought of sex seems as appealing as doing your taxes (sorry not...
The Real Reason You’re “Never in the Mood” (It’...
Let’s face it: we’ve all been there. One moment you’re feeling like a goddess, and the next, the thought of sex seems as appealing as doing your taxes (sorry not...
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Reignite Your Spark: A Playful Guide to Redisco...
If you’ve been feeling a bit disconnected from your desire lately, you’re not alone. Life can get overwhelming, and sometimes our passions take a back seat to responsibilities like work,...
Reignite Your Spark: A Playful Guide to Redisco...
If you’ve been feeling a bit disconnected from your desire lately, you’re not alone. Life can get overwhelming, and sometimes our passions take a back seat to responsibilities like work,...


